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			 A crowd gathered around. And on one of the few stretches of road 
			here that wasn't overflowing with debris, they played basketball. 
 			I didn't know what to think at first when I stumbled upon six 
			teenagers shooting hoops over the weekend in a wrecked neighborhood 
			of Tacloban, a city that Typhoon Haiyan reduced to rubble, bodies 
			and uprooted trees when it slammed into the Philippines Nov. 8.
 			As a foreign correspondent working in the middle of a horrendous 
			disaster zone, I didn't expect to see people having a good time — or 
			asking me to play ball. I was even more stunned when I learned that 
			the basketball goal was one of the first things this neighborhood 
			rebuilt.
 			It took a moment for me to realize that it made all the sense in the 
			world.
 			The kids wanted to play so they can take their minds off what 
			happened, said Elanie Saranillo, one of the spectators. "And we want 
			to watch so we, too, can forget."
 			Saranillo, 22, now lives in a church after her own home was leveled 
			by the storm. 			
			
			 
 			Countless families lost loved ones to the typhoon, which killed more 
			than 4,000 people. Hundreds of thousands of survivors have endured 
			unimaginable suffering: hunger, thirst, makeshift shelter, little if 
			any medical care, and a desperate, dayslong wait for aid to arrive. 
			Tacloban was filled with hopeless, fear-filled faces. Even now, 
			blackened bodies with peeling skin still lay by the roads, or are 
			trapped under the rubble.
 			But as the crisis eases and aid begins to flow, hope is flickering. 
			People smile, if only briefly, and joke, if only in passing. They 
			are snippets of life. They do not mean, by any stretch, that people 
			are happy in the face of tragedy. But for some, there is a newfound 
			enthusiasm for life that comes from having just escaped death.
 			When a kid with mismatched shoes rolled the grimy, orange-and-yellow 
			basketball my way, I was encouraged to attempt a slam-dunk. I opted 
			for free throws instead, and miraculously sank the first two, to 
			immense cheers all around.
 			My third shot hit the rim, circled twice and rolled the wrong way. 
			The crowd roared a sympathetic "Awwwwwwwwww." There were a lot of 
			laughs.
 			In Saranillo's neighborhood, I saw four giggling children jumping up 
			and down on two soiled mattresses strung across a cobweb of smashed 
			wooden beams that had once formed somebody's home. Two women stood 
			on a hilltop high above, dancing.
 			A few yards (meters) away, a 21-year-old named Mark Cuayzon strummed 
			a guitar. He too, was smiling. And in this city virtually erased by 
			nature, I had to ask why.
 			"I'm sad about Tacloban," he said. "But I'm happy because I'm still 
			alive. I survived. I lost my house, but I didn't lose my family." 			
			
			 
 			I covered the aftermath of the 2011 tsunami in Japan, and cannot 
			recall a single laugh. Every nation is resilient in its own way, but 
			there is something different in the Philippines that I have not yet 
			put my finger on.
 			While walking through Tacloban's ruins, I and my colleagues were 
			almost always greeted by kind words. When I asked how people were 
			doing, people who had lost everything said, "Good." Superficial 
			words, of course, but combined with the smiles, and with hearing 
			"Hey, Joe" again and again (an old World War II reference to G.I. 
			Joe), they helped form a picture I have not encountered in other 
			disaster zones.
 			Perhaps it has something to do with an expression Filipinos have: 
			"Bahala Na." It essentially means: Whatever happens, leave it to 
			God.
 			Elizabeth Protacio de Castro, an associate professor of psychology 
			at the University of Philippines in Manila, said her nation has 
			grown accustomed to catastrophe. Some 20 typhoons barrel across the 
			nation every year. Add to that earthquakes, volcanic eruptions, 
			armed insurgencies and political upheaval.
 			
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			"Dealing with disaster has become an art," de Castro said. But 
			Typhoon Haiyan "was quite different. It was immense, and no amount 
			of preparation could have prepared us to cope with it."
 			And yet, they must cope.
 			"So rather than screaming or staring at the wall in a psychiatric 
			ward, you do everything you can. You do your best, then let it go," 
			said de Castro, who helped provide psychological aid to victims of 
			the 2004 Asia tsunami during a previous job with the U.N. Children's 
			Fund.
 			People playing music or sports in the rubble, de Castro said, "is a 
			way of saying, 'Life goes on.' This is what they used to do every 
			day, and they're going to keep doing it."
 			"It's not that Filipinos are some happy-go-lucky people and don't 
			care," she added. "It's a normal reaction to an abnormal situation. 
			They're saying: 'I can deal with this. I'm at peace, and whatever 
			happens tomorrow, happens.' ... They need help, of course, but 
			they're also saying, they're going to get by on their own if they 
			have to."
 			De Castro has been counseling students in Manila who lost parents 
			and siblings to the storm, and said some have displayed incredible 
			determination. "They've lost their entire families, and they're 
			telling me, 'I have to finish my studies because my parents paid my 
			tuition through the end of the year.'"
 			That sense of determination is literally written in the ruins of 
			Tacloban.
 			One handwritten message painted on a board outside a destroyed shop 
			said the "eyes of the world" are on the city. It added, "Don't 
			quit." 						
			
			 
 			Those who have gotten a chance to leave Tacloban have done so, of 
			course, though many will no doubt return one day.
 			On Monday, I rode on a U.S. Air Force C-17 out of Tacloban to 
			Manila, along with about 500 people displaced by the typhoon. There 
			were babies and pregnant women. Some had tears in their eyes. One 
			man held a doll with stuffed animal-like angel wings. He stared at 
			it intensely, kissing it over and over.
 			As the plane neared Manila, an American crew member held her iPhone 
			to her helmet's microphone, which was linked the aircraft's speaker 
			system.
 			She hit play, and Earth, Wind and Fire's 1978 hit "September" belted 
			out. The sea of eyes squatting on the cargo plane immediately turned 
			radiant.
 			Men twirled their arms. Women swayed back and forth, and the words 
			echoed through the plane's cargo hold:
 			"Do you remember ...
 			While chasing the clouds away,
 			Our hearts were ringing,
 			In the key that our souls were singing.
 			As we danced in the night. Remember,
 			How the stars stole the night away." [Associated 
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